Every person has their own unique way to express their love to their loved ones.
Also every love story has a different starting & endings. Every relationship teaches us
a lot. Nobody is perfect, but the way we ignore each other’s insecurities and together
form a bond to cherish for lifetime is mesmerizing. A relationship consists of so
many things, the very popular ones are here
TRUST Trust is the base or root of a relationship. The more the trust, the healthier is the
relationship. Being honest and loyal is the key to achieve trust. A relationship with
trust is never likely to break apart since both of the partners can rely on each other.
This will lead to better lifestyles and help both of them develop among themselves &
concentrate on their own busy life without any tensions among them.
UNDERSTANDING
Of course, it’s important to understand. Understanding among each other makes the
relationship more convenient and rational. Less understanding causes unwanted
tensions among two people as they struggle to understand each other’s need. Many
misunderstanding & other relationship related issues might arrive. The partners will
understand each other’s boundaries or limits & avoid doing things that might risk the
relationship. A person goes through so many things through his lifetime. Not
everyone grew with same surrounding. The perception and perspective of every
person is different. Understanding the things related to what the partner is going
through & what might irritate her makes the relationship for both the party very
comfortable.
COMPATIBILITY
We all are familiar with “opposite attracts more”, but there are certain fields where
the compatibility between two people should be average. For instance if a person
hates gym, the person is not likely to fall for a gym trainer. And dating someone
whose profession or certain things are hated will make the relationship go chaotic in
the end. Good compatibility among two people makes the environment around
them peaceful & healthy automatically.
RESPECT
Respect is one of the most important factor for a healthy and loving relationship.
Respecting not only physically but also respecting the other person’s decision. Two
person respecting each other will lead to no domination. There will be equality in
their relationship. This will also help both of the partners to take right steps since no
one is overpowering, they are taking each other’s consent & taking a decision.
Respecting each other’s decision about social as well as personal life. Due to this, the
partners are unlikely to become toxic. Since they respect each other, they will not do
something that might hurt or disrespect the partner or partner’s reputation.
KINDNESS
Although we generally are affectionate and kind towards the person we love but then
therefore sometimes expressing with little extra care & kindness through body
language and cute gestures will make the other partner feel loved. Loving is easier
than making the other partner feel loved since different people have different love
languages. A little help & sweet gestures will make the other person in relationship
feel motivated and positive about their relationship.
COMMUNICATION
Letting the person know what we think or feel about themselves is really important.
A good communication without any community barrier leads to smooth
relationship. Both of the party explore and understanding each other more through
it. They become comfortable with each others. Communication not only regarding
personal life, but about social life, friends and family, the knowledge of partner’s
surrounding and life is very important to get an idea about partner’s life. After all it’s
us for the rest of the lives to spend, it’s necessary to know about principles &
philosophy about the partner.
EFFORTS
Efforts are very necessary to make a relationship work. Both the partners must give
efforts so that the love between them keeps on blooming. Lack of efforts makes the
environment dull. Both the partners think they are taken as granted. To avoid such
toxic conditions genuine efforts are important. The partner should try to develop by
rectifying their flaws and grow together with the partner. The will to make the
partner happy no matter what is very needed. A little love notes or love letters, rose
bouquet or scented candles and other such things might not cost that much but gifting them or surprising them gives immense pleasure to partner and keeps the
charm among them.
Two person who are genuinely in love with each other develop all these qualities
gradually and successfully set an example of a perfect and healthy relationship.
Trust, understanding, kindness, communication and efforts should not only be
among couples in love but also among other relationship like that of parents and
children or teacher and student. Being positive about the relationship is also
important. Don’t think about how much years it would last. Go with the flow with
emotions certainly the relationship would workout if it’s meant to be with all the qualities discussed above-mentioned.
~ Exclusively written by Prachi Bera
